Comments for The Cracking Confidence Coach

Comment on Great Questions To Help You Get The Most Out Of Life by Kim

Kim — Fri, 03 Feb 2012 12:40:46 +0000

I love this list! Especially question number 6 because it’s something that will bring forth positive emotions towards accomplishing new milestones in life!

Comment on Brainstorming and Chunking by Kim

Kim — Fri, 03 Feb 2012 01:28:55 +0000

This is a really valuable and vital service. Too often, I see people suffer from stress exactly because brainstorming and chunking the material was not done beforehand.

Comment on Do the Media Make Us Judgmental? by Kim

Kim — Tue, 24 Jan 2012 17:33:18 +0000

This is a great topic to bring to our attention and I thank you for doing so, Dan. I don’t think we would like to feel judgmental “because” of media, yet we are surely more and more, easily influenced by the stories they choose to focus on as “important”.

I think more than ever, this raises key issues within each one of us such as:

How much attention and power to do I want to give to these media sources?

How do I keep my consciousness as free of judgment as possible?

After all is said and done, the media cannot make us judgmental if we focus on activities that cultivate a non-judgmental awareness within ourselves.

Comment on Dealing With Aggressive or Angry People by Dan O'Neil

Dan O'Neil — Thu, 05 Jan 2012 11:58:41 +0000

Thanks for chipping in James, I think that there are times when these tips are not going to be appropriate – particularly when dealing with psychotic or mentally ill people. In those situations, you need to get more direct help. I appreciate your honesty in saying that you blame yourself – there are so many people out there in a similar situation who feel like that too. Keep reminding yourself that it’s not your fault that someone else is like this, your only job is to choose in what way to react.

Comment on Why is it Hard to Say No by Dan O'Neil

Dan O'Neil — Thu, 05 Jan 2012 11:34:34 +0000

Thanks Brid.

Comment on Improve Your Confidence Without Doing Anything Different by Dan O'Neil

Dan O'Neil — Thu, 05 Jan 2012 09:46:59 +0000

Hi Brid, that’s a common experience!

Comment on If Only I Had More Confidence… by Dan O'Neil

Dan O'Neil — Thu, 05 Jan 2012 09:46:06 +0000

Thanks for your input Jon, excitement is a wonderful thing to bring to your life… makes your appetite for the journey much greater!

Comment on The Art of Non-Judgment (Unconditional Acceptance) by Dan O'Neil

Dan O'Neil — Thu, 05 Jan 2012 09:44:36 +0000

Hi Kim,

It is hard work to give unconditional love… but when you learn it, it’s so much easier!

Comment on If Only I Had More Confidence… by Dan O'Neil

Dan O'Neil — Thu, 05 Jan 2012 09:41:43 +0000

Hi Nick, thanks for your feedback!

Comment on Dealing With Aggressive or Angry People by james

james — Thu, 22 Dec 2011 16:33:24 +0000

Just responding to peta i am in a very similar situation only with a psyhcotic man who is big! he has threatened me and lots of people and is clearly mentally ill. Another problem is he has a son who spreads negativity throughout the neighbourhood , damaging cars , shaking his fist ,foul language in fact he is a minuature version of his father.He damaged my car again today i think it may be time to move.What can be done ? The funny thing is i blame myself ,obvoiusly i have a problem or two.